The Shaken Table
" Bukana if you love me,you will prove it to me. " she said flashing her eyes like a torch light.
"How? I don't understand you. What do you mean?" I asked her even though I knew exactly what she meant.
"See you are not a baby joor. Haba! Stop this thing you are saying. We are friends and we should do what friends do." she replied.
"What if we don't do what friends do kwanu?" I asked her.
" Then,there's no more need we are friends biko. Everybody does it and ours can't be different. But if you insist,then it means you don't take me the way I take you." she said and with that, she walked away and never came back and who cares kwanu! Me? Oh no!
In relationships between singles,we always want to do what will please our spouse even when it's against our belief,moral,principle,faith or discipline. We always want to compromise just for the sake of " saving " our relationship not knowing that any relationship built on the wrong foundaton will surely collapse some day.
We are in a society where we were taught that sexual purity among singles or rather youths is just a fallacy!
We are in a society that has taught us that there is nothing wrong with "fornication " since we were under grace!
We are in a society that has taught us that there is nothing wrong in dressing sexually thereby leaving nothing for the imagination!
The society has really taught us the wrong things about sexual morality among singles and has also set standards that we have embraced joyfully but ignorant of the consequences.
Relationships between singles should be a thing that gives God glory and brings them closer to God and not giving the devil glory. The devil didn't create you. God did because He desires a true fellowship with you that will give Him glory but it's amazing that instead of giving Him glory,we give him "shame" even the so called Christian youths.
Sexual immortality is a door opener for the devil to come in and guess what,when he comes in,he doesn't come alone,he comes with his "brothers and sisters " and they take up their abode in your life. The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 5:6 "Your glorying is not good. Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump?"
1 Corinthians 6:18,"Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.6:19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?6:20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's."
You don't owe your body neither is your life yours because you were "BOUGHT" with a price. Your life is a borrowed life which will be returned some day to the real owner and thats why you should glorify God with that life! Let everything about you glorify God. Your relationship,dressing,way of life,attitude, manner of speech etc. Let it express the Jesus in you!
Take some time and ask yourself some questions. That relationship you are trying to protect by loosing your morales will one day be lost! Any one pressuring you for sex is an adulterer in the making. If that relationship with that person will lead you to compromise your morality,them FLEE!
The importance of sexual purity among singles or rather youths shouldn't be neglected. People don't love to talk about it because either they are scared of what people will say,or feeling guilty or feeling that they will loose friends. I rather loose friends than hide the truth from you. I rather loose friends than deceive you or watch you make mistakes like some of us did . In as much as we teach youths how to empower themselves and be successful in life,let's also teach them that true success comes when God is glorified in them. Let's also teach them that sexual purity is a fast track to a beautiful life. Let's also teach them to Flee from sexual immorality and learn how to please God with their bodies.
Your spirituality is ineffective without moral and sexual purity! For how long should we continue deceiving ourselves that we are under grace? Been under grace is not a license to sin! Been under grace is not a license to live anyhow! When God asks you to live a pure and holy life,He wasn't exaggerating neither is it for His own good but for your own good! Don't compromise your morality on the alter of temporary pleasure because it will turn out to be a disaster to your destiny!
Be careful! There is always a consequences for everything you do. Either good or bad, you will face it someday and by then,don't say you never know because I JUST TOLD YOU SO!
I have finally shaken the table! Hope yours weren't affected?
God bless you.
"How? I don't understand you. What do you mean?" I asked her even though I knew exactly what she meant.
"See you are not a baby joor. Haba! Stop this thing you are saying. We are friends and we should do what friends do." she replied.
"What if we don't do what friends do kwanu?" I asked her.
" Then,there's no more need we are friends biko. Everybody does it and ours can't be different. But if you insist,then it means you don't take me the way I take you." she said and with that, she walked away and never came back and who cares kwanu! Me? Oh no!
In relationships between singles,we always want to do what will please our spouse even when it's against our belief,moral,principle,faith or discipline. We always want to compromise just for the sake of " saving " our relationship not knowing that any relationship built on the wrong foundaton will surely collapse some day.
We are in a society where we were taught that sexual purity among singles or rather youths is just a fallacy!
We are in a society that has taught us that there is nothing wrong with "fornication " since we were under grace!
We are in a society that has taught us that there is nothing wrong in dressing sexually thereby leaving nothing for the imagination!
The society has really taught us the wrong things about sexual morality among singles and has also set standards that we have embraced joyfully but ignorant of the consequences.
Relationships between singles should be a thing that gives God glory and brings them closer to God and not giving the devil glory. The devil didn't create you. God did because He desires a true fellowship with you that will give Him glory but it's amazing that instead of giving Him glory,we give him "shame" even the so called Christian youths.
Sexual immortality is a door opener for the devil to come in and guess what,when he comes in,he doesn't come alone,he comes with his "brothers and sisters " and they take up their abode in your life. The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 5:6 "Your glorying is not good. Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump?"
1 Corinthians 6:18,"Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.6:19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?6:20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's."
You don't owe your body neither is your life yours because you were "BOUGHT" with a price. Your life is a borrowed life which will be returned some day to the real owner and thats why you should glorify God with that life! Let everything about you glorify God. Your relationship,dressing,way of life,attitude, manner of speech etc. Let it express the Jesus in you!
Take some time and ask yourself some questions. That relationship you are trying to protect by loosing your morales will one day be lost! Any one pressuring you for sex is an adulterer in the making. If that relationship with that person will lead you to compromise your morality,them FLEE!
The importance of sexual purity among singles or rather youths shouldn't be neglected. People don't love to talk about it because either they are scared of what people will say,or feeling guilty or feeling that they will loose friends. I rather loose friends than hide the truth from you. I rather loose friends than deceive you or watch you make mistakes like some of us did . In as much as we teach youths how to empower themselves and be successful in life,let's also teach them that true success comes when God is glorified in them. Let's also teach them that sexual purity is a fast track to a beautiful life. Let's also teach them to Flee from sexual immorality and learn how to please God with their bodies.
Your spirituality is ineffective without moral and sexual purity! For how long should we continue deceiving ourselves that we are under grace? Been under grace is not a license to sin! Been under grace is not a license to live anyhow! When God asks you to live a pure and holy life,He wasn't exaggerating neither is it for His own good but for your own good! Don't compromise your morality on the alter of temporary pleasure because it will turn out to be a disaster to your destiny!
Be careful! There is always a consequences for everything you do. Either good or bad, you will face it someday and by then,don't say you never know because I JUST TOLD YOU SO!
I have finally shaken the table! Hope yours weren't affected?
God bless you.
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