Ch:9 competition and mindset
In asian countries like india,the competition is very high,it starts from the school days when parents compare your result with other's children.If you got more marks than them they just appreciate you,but if you got less marks they'll taugnt you even if you scored 91%.But,they show the other parent in front of their child like theyr'e not worth their attention.Children learn same thing,by looking at this type of behaviour and behave in the same way.But ,is it good to change someones's mindset for temprorary happiness.Of course not,it develops a competitive nature,which will affect them in some way.Just suppressing someone for the reason that he scored less cannot be a good thing.Marks don't define intelligence everytime,who knows the person has got talents like music,etc or not.But,making them freind also can't be a option,you have to help them in studies,don't just ignore them after all they form 60% of society.Just try going for knowledge instead of marks,that's the best i can say about your way right now.It's not about other's feelings like that,it's about how you think about others? you belive in helping others or just try to show attitude to them?.The way you do things,gives you satisfaction even if other's don't like you.Just show who you really are,unlike most of people just show who you are and never forget your trueself and reality.
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